Ne ličim se zate!

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Danes vas spet čaka malo bolj jezna objava, zato že vnaprej odsvetujem branje vsem, ki ste hitro užaljeni in vsem, ki mislite, da se ženske ličimo, da bomo všeč drugim.

Med ljudmi obstaja neko prepričanje, da se ženske ličimo zato, da bi bile drugim privlačnejše, da bi bile všeč moškim, da bi ustrezale nekim lepotnim idealom…

Ali nihče ne pomisli, da se ličimo zase? Da nam je super, če se naše umetne trepalnice skoraj dotikajo obrvi, da se rade igramo z barvami, nekatere si rade na obraz nalepijo še kakšen kristalček ali pa črtalo v vseh barvah mavrice..

In vi mislite, da se ličimo, da bomo bolj všeč moškim?

Zakaj bi zapravljala toliko denarja za to, da bi bila moškim privlačna, če pa niti moj dragi ne opazi, da imam na sebi novo Kat Von D črtalo? On še ve ne kdo je Kat Von D!

Kar želim povedati je to, da nekatere punce rade nosimo veliko ličil in se tako počutimo najbolje, nekatere se najbolje počutijo brez ličil, nekatere rade nosijo samo nežno bb kremo in maskaro, nekatere pa si samo poudarijo obrvi. In vse to počnejo ZASE.

Opažam tudi, da se zadnje časa zelo uporablja besedno zvezo “naravna lepota”. Da je treba z ličili samo poudariti “naravno lepoto” in, da se ne sme pretiravati, ker tako zakriješ “naravno lepoto”. Res me zanima kaj to sploh pomeni. Zakaj je naravna lepota nek ideal? A če se punca, ki je lepa brez ličil naliči, ni več lepa? A če je punca lepa, ko je naličena, bo brez ličil nujno grda? A lahko že enkrat zaključimo, da smo vse lepe? Z tono mejkapa ali brez.

Če mi paše na oči namazati vse barve mavrice in si nabasati na obraz toliko pudra, da svet pojma nima, da imam jaz tudi pore in podočnjake, bom to naredila. Pa nisem zato nič manj lepa in še najmanj bom to naredila zato, da bom všeč moškim.

Rada pa bi omenila še en stavek, ki ga slišim prepogosto. In to je, ko kakšen moški reče “veš, meni pa niso všeč naličene punce, mam raje take naravne”. Dragi moj, pa kdo je tebe vprašal kaj je tebi všeč? Pa ti res misliš, da se jaz zjutraj zbudim in pomislim “no kaj naj jaz zdaj naredim z mojim obrazom, da bo Janezu všeč?” Zadnja stvar, ki žensko, ki se rada liči, zanima je, ali bo ona všeč enemu x moškemu, ki ima pa rad “naravne punce”.

In tale objava še zdaleč ne pomeni, da kakorkoli obsojam ženske, ki se ne ličijo, in so si takšne všeč. Še zdaleč ne. Vsaka dela s svojim obrazom, kar je njej všeč in nobeden nima pravice tega kakorkoli kritizirati ali je poniževati.

Tako. Pa sem se spihala.

Hvala za branje,

Melita Ivana xx.

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Disclaimer:

Today I have a rant for you, so I advise you not to read it if you are easily offended or if you think that women wear makeup only to please others.

A lot of people think that women put on makeup to please others, especially men. Or maybe that we want to conform to certain beauty standards.

But does anyone maybe think that we do it for ourselves? That we like it when our lashes touch our brows, that we like playing with colors or glueing little gemstones on our faces?

And you think we do it to please men?

Why on earth would I spend sooo much money for men to like me if even my boyfriend doesnt notice it when I wear the new Kat von D eyeliner. Hell, he doesn’t even know who Kat von D is!

What I want to say is that some women like to wear a lot of makeup, some don’t like wearing it at all, some just use mascara or just lipbalm. And they do it because THEY feel like it.

Another thing I want to talk about is “natural beauty”. I hear people saying that you should only use makeup to bring out your “natural beauty”, that too much makeup will hide the “natural beauty”… I seriously want to know what that even means. Why is natural beauty an ideal and what does it even mean? If a girl is beautiful without makeup, does she turn ugly if she wears it? If a girl is beautiful with makeup, will she turn ugly when she takes it off?

Can we just agree on the fact that ALL women are beautiful regardless of the amount of makeup on their skin?

If I feel like painting my face with ten different colors and putting on so much foundation that you will never know that I have pores too, I will do it. And I won’t be any less pretty because of that and I will not do it for anyone else but me.

And here I want to mention something that I hear a lot, mostly from men. “You see, I don’t like girls who wear makeup, I prefer natural girls”.

Sweetie, WHO asked you? Do you really think that I wake up in the morning thinking “what should I do with my face today, so Joe will like it?” The last thing that a women who wears makeup is woried about is your opinion on that. Believe me.

And this post is in no way bashing women who don’t wear makeup. Every woman decides for herself is she likes makeup or not or if she prefers a simple natural look and no one should make fun of her or belittle her because of it.

Rant over. Thank you for reading.

Melita Ivana xx.

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